Questions Frequently Asked about STIs...

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My partner was diagnosed with an STI, do I have to go and get tested?

Yes, even if you have not experienced any symptoms, as many STIs don't show any symptoms. We would advise you contact your local doctor or sexual health advisor as soon as possible and get checked out. It will also be helpful if you find out what type of STI your boyfriend has. Give your doctor as much information as possible to help them know what to look out for.

Can you catch an STI, including HIV, through oral sex?

Yes, oral sex is just one of the ways in which STIs are passed on. Common infections through oral sex include:

  • Chlamydia
  • Gonorrhoea
  • Genital herpes
  • Syphilis

Most STIs are treatable if caught early enough, so if you suspect you may have an infection, it’s important to visit your local health clinic as soon as possible. If left untreated, STIs are not only uncomfortable and embarrassing, but can seriously affect your health and fertility.

What’s best ways to avoid catching an STI?

Abstinence is clearly the best protection from STIs, but if you choose to have sex, condoms will provide you with the best protection as they act as a protective barrier against bodily fluids, which pass the infections onto the person you have sex with.

Can you get an STI even if you're a virgin?

Yes. Most people agree that a virgin is someone who has never had vaginal intercourse. But many sexually transmitted infections can be passed through oral sex - and some infections can even be passed by skin-to-skin contact.

Unprotected oral sex - without using a condom or dental dam - puts both partners at risk of contracting a number of STIs.

Remember. it's possible for someone to carry an infection and not show any symptoms. That's why many people unknowingly pass infections along to their partners.

How do you get tested for STIs?

It depends on the infection. When doctors test for sexually transmitted infections, they usually test for more than one. To decide on what to test you for, your doctor will have to examine you physically. They will talk to you about any visible symptoms (symptoms they may see or feel) and you will be asked about your sexual behaviour.

Depending on what is found during the examination and conversation, your doctor may take samples of:

  • Blood — to check for hepatitis, herpes, HIV and syphilis
  • Urine — to check for Chlamydia and Gonorrhoea
  • Cells or swabs — to check for Chlamydia, Gonorrhoea and HPV (Human Papilloma Virus)
  • Fluid, secretions, or discharge — to check for Gonorrhoea, Herpes, HPV and syphilis.

Recently, some health officials have called for similar tests on cells collected from the rectum if people have anal sex.

Most clinicians will not do a screening for sexually transmitted infections unless you ask. So, don't let embarrassment become a health risk. If you are sexually active, you should ask to be screened for all infections including HIV.

Can you get STIs from kissing?

Yes. Although kissing is considered a low risk sexual activity when compared to sexual intercourse and oral sex, it can transmit Herpes, and Syphilis. They can both be transmitted by skin-to-skin contact, particularly at times when sores are present.

Could I have been born with an STI?

Yes, it is possible to be born with a sexually transmitted infection. Some infections, such as gonorrhoea, herpes, HPV, HIV, and syphilis, can be passed from a woman to the foetus during pregnancy or childbirth. If you are really worried and would like to be tested, ask your doctor.

Can I have more than one sexually transmitted infection at a time?

Yes, you can have more than one at the same time.

Each STI is different and each requires its own treatment. You don’t ever become immune to STIs

It’s quite easy for you to can catch the same infection over and over again. Many men and women do not see or feel any early symptoms when they first become infected with an STI, however they can still infect their sexual partner.

Who can I talk to about STIs?

For professional advice on anything related to health, it is advisable to speak to your local doctor or sexual health advisor. This way you are guaranteed un-biased and accurate information. If you have an open relationship with your parents speak with them and explain your worries - they may be able to give you the support and comfort that a doctor or sexual health worker many not.

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