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Comment on I cheated on my girlfriend – help! by aj

aj — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 15:55:28 +0000

I need some third party perspective on my situation. I am a 24 year old female, I have been with my guy for a little over a year now. When I first moved in I was unpacking my stuff and in the nightstand in the bottom drawer there was a small three pack box of condoms. There was two of three there, that was over 10 months ago. So, I made note of it and left them there. We have never used condoms I figured they were from is single days so no big deal, whatever. Well recently he has been acting really fucking nuts, I’ll ask him when he is coming home from work because i will be making dinner, and he will just act really defensive. Anyway, last night I finally got up the courage to look in the drawer to see if they were still there…..they werent. there are a lot of other signs as to why I got curious in the first place. I am highly affectionate, physical if you know what i mean I cook, I clean, I work my ass off, help with bills anything he needs. I’m no push over by any means, and do not get pissy every time he has to go to work. I am not your stereotypical female. But I need advice, should I talk to him? Calmy? ask him to just explain? Please both men, and woman are more than welcome to give me some adice I would like to hear both sides! Thanks!

Comment on I cheated on my girlfriend – help! by anonymous

anonymous — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 07:14:06 +0000

Literally JUST cheated on my gf of two years, and afterwards the girl flipped out bc she wanted to be with me. Now shes threatening to tell my girlfriend. I may be fucked.

Comment on My Boyfriend Cheated On Me, But I Still Love Him by sh

sh — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 06:44:00 +0000

Yeah I don’t know what’s gonna happen with me. The guy I was with for two years I found out he had been having another girlfriend and I just wanna kill myself because he admitted it and we broke up but I could not take it, I was hurting a lot so I went back to him. And he says he loves me and all but I know he’s still with her and my heart just breaks. I can’t believe how men can do this to women.. didn’t they come from one? Don’t they have sisters and daughters? I really wish I did some wiccan thing to just get me to STOP liking him STOP loving him

Comment on How To Find Out If Your Boyfriend Is Cheating On You by Matasaua Pefu

Matasaua Pefu — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 00:06:41 +0000

As true as this article can be. We cn’t change the way the male population works. I mean, there are faithful and loyal guys out there and omg, how I envy their girlfriends. But at the same time, I’m thankful for the experiences that I went through in my relationship. I broke up with an ex about 5 days ago due to our LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP… only becuz his ass was cheating behind my back when he arrived to New Zealand. His ass be going to clubs, parties and even admitted to sleeping at one of the girl’s house and making out with other girls as well wen we were having our emotional “tell all” confession session. I appreciated the fact that he told me the truth while he was tearing up. But still claimed to love me and all dat other bull crap and so being the idiot that I am, i accepted, forgave and got bak together with him.After 4 years in our relationship, it took a distance relationship and a whole lot of SCREW ME OVER’S for me to actually leave his ass wanting more. smfh! He already tatted my name on his chest and shiet, I’d like to him find another stupid girl to sleep with a guy whose still in love with his ex. I was told that the real reason as to why he keeps coming bak is becuz, his heart is with me and even wen he fucks around, he’d still be thinking about me. LAME! and that I’m the only girl he has EVER been with that never gave him my virginity until after 2 years of our dating relationship when I thought that he was a REAL MAN for waiting THAT LONG! smfh. ONLY to find out his ass was screwing othe low life, good for nothing, one night stand type of girls. I’ve never cheated and i’m thankful for not being the jealous type and for all the heart breaks. Cuz through it all. I’ve managed to transition myself for the better and just love myself and God…. knowing that i’ve got my girls with me to, helps me forget all dah shiet i’ve been through. Cuz if it weren’t for dat experience. I never would’ve been able to feel the need to be the stronger person and let go. And for my girls, i’d be crying my ass out if it weren’t for all those crazy ass times with them Be thankful for the experience, dnt regret it IT MAKES U STRONGER!

Comment on Guest Post: Living Positive by Bassey

Bassey — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 19:07:13 +0000

It is very good for one to know his/her HIV status

Comment on Sex And Relationships: Female Masturbation by Emily

Emily — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 11:57:14 +0000

Well said! Do you happen to know if there are any organisations or campaigns that are dedicated to encouraging a more enlightened approach to female masturbation? I can’t seem to find anything, and yet it’s such an important topic…

Comment on My Boyfriend Cheated On Me, But I Still Love Him by Gileen

Gileen — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 04:46:50 +0000

I know what’s its like..i had a boyfriend for almost 2 years and we planned on getting married…he made me so happy was so sweet and i believed every word he said…i loved him so much, and i still do. For over a year he NEVER let me down. But a few months ago he started partying all the time, dropped out of school, and became basically a drug attic. But i loved him so much even if he failed in life, i loved him for who he was is what i told myself. But he was always to drunk or high to see me, and he wasn’t sweet like he used to be. Next thing i know he tells me he cheated on me when he was drunk, he said it wasn’t his fault, so i believe him, and forgave him. But things continued to go downhill and he continued to swore he loved me and go on special dates, and then not answer his phone for weeks. Finally he tells me he wants to break up because he has been cheating on me the whole time. No apology, no goodbye, he wouldn’t even let me take my stuff or my money back. A week later (today) i find out he has a little slut girlfriend already! I loved him because he was sweet charming and never let me down, but it took me months of being emotionally and verbally abused by the boy i loved to realize, he wasn’t the boy i loved, all this boy wanted is sex!!! and our relationship was SO MUCH More than that! I should’ve left the first time he cheated, or sooner.

Comment on Sex Education For The 21st Century by Anita

Anita — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 00:28:17 +0000

I am new to all the blogging, but anyway I a 57 year grandmother and have been dating an older genltemen, I thought we were in a exclusive relationship or I was exclusive to him, He did make some statements that I may have to share him because men can have several women, I said I didn’t want to share or didn’t want to know about it. Well he works out of town when came back in town we had sex I found out a week later that I had a STD-trichomocus. He never said a word, I am so hurt and I think I love him, at my age. He won’t return my calls, texts, or emails. It really hurts. I want to forgive and move on. I am too old for this drama.

Comment on Sex Education For The 21st Century by Zara

Zara — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 22:54:40 +0000

i was been told and have told friends about sex. it was kind of sharing each others knowledge all about it and to be fair i think that the ’safe sex’ or in other words protecting oneself during sex is not one of the topics which is being spread widely enough because many people know all about sex but they only think its a ‘that moment only’ thing, they dont think about whats going to happen afterwards if not protected because they’ve just got no knowledge about it or they dont care about the so called ‘boring’ part of sex..its pretty sad though…
and hell yeah,i definately agree that online and specially mobile resources have a positive impact on enhancing sex education, the greatest education infact bacause most young people hesitate ask sex related questions to their teachers, parents or siblings even,which are the only people around them who have sex knowledge..

Comment on How To Find Out If Your Boyfriend Is Cheating On You by Bella

Bella — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 17:04:18 +0000

so,me and this boy have been talking for almost a month now, and things seemed like they are going great, but he lives kinda far away, so i never know who hes with, and hes always commenting on fb other girls photos saying ” beautiful” or “wow ” and normally that wuldnt bother me cuz i dont mind tht hes got friends that are girls, but the whole, not knowing whos hes with, and when hes with his friends, he barely talks to me,except for two word answers. my friends all tell me that he has a reputation, and i mean, we all do right? i was even told that he makes me llok bad..i just…i dont know what im supposed to do :’(